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           date: 2013-11-15 time: 21:57:04
the situation in public bathrooms just really bothers me like i cant do my business with other people being so close to me jesus christ we need to get some full walls between the toilets in public bathrooms instead of those awkward ass stalls lets start a petition who will sign it we are sending this to obamba
 

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  2151

  
           date: 2013-11-15 time: 21:51:48
its uncomfortable when ur waiting in the car while your mom runs errands and then you start singing to yourself really loudly and then you forget that people outside of your car can probably hear you and that is probably the reason why they are glancing at you so weirdly
 

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  2140

  
           date: 2013-11-15 time: 21:40:00
but like i dont even GET how same sex marriage isnt legal like ok from a political standpoint there is no solid argument against it seriously the most prominent argument against same sex marraige is “the bible says its wrong” BUT OUR COUNTRY HAS THIS LITTLE THINGY WE CALL SEPARATION OF CHURCH AND STATE SO HOW IS THIS CONSIDERED A VALID ARGUMENT BY ANYONE OH MY GOD HOW
 
and it’s the worst when people say that gay couples already have the same rights as straight couples so it doesn’t make a difference if they get married because it just leads back to the question of why can’t they get married in the first place smh
 

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  2010

  
           date: 2013-11-14 time: 20:10:53
please don’t tell people that they’re “not ugly because everyone’s beautiful” please just pat them on the shoulder and say “who gives a fuck because the subjective spectrum of beauty requires someone to observe you and if your happiness relies on the observations of even one other person then it will never be complete just love yourself regardless of whether or not you’re hideous”

 

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  1735

  
           date: 2013-11-14 time: 17:35:46
if you’re mad at a woman for being proud of being smart you’re WRONG because women are always supposed to downplay our accomplishments and good qualities, we’re supposed have an extreme amount of humility, we’re supposed to essentially be mild and unthreatening so men can have all the glory and power… especially when it comes to intelligence there is something very threatening about a woman who knows she’s smart… and women constantly downplay how smart they are… so don’t contribute to that by telling a self-assured intelligent woman not to explicitly say she’s smart fuck you honestly

 

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  1728

  
           date: 2013-11-14 time: 17:28:50
i think the biggest thing i can say is that if you want to make changes do it for a positive reason not a negative one. like if you want to start going to the gym more frame it as taking care of your body and pushing yourself to do something amazing that will release endorphins, not as a punishment for your body. even if you don’t believe it right away just framing things in that way really helps you love yourself bc you start realizing you DESERVE GOOD THINGS!!!! take the time to treat yourself well!!

 

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  1639

  
           date: 2013-11-13 time: 16:39:56

ok so lemme do a short thing about virginity/ tightness of vagina. your vagina gets looser as you become more sexually aroused during intercourse. this is why when you normally put a finger in your vagina, its a lot tighter than when you put it in when you’re aroused. the myth that the vagina is tighter when you’re a virgin is caused by 2 things

1) cis men love the idea of “ruining” a woman’s body  (as shown by porn) and they get some sort of sick pleasure from thinking that after having sex with a woman, she will never be the same again.

2) women are more anxious during their first time, which results in them being less sexually aroused and their vagina being more contracted.

if your have kids young enough, your vagina will literally return to it’s previous tightness. that’s how elastic it is. there is no way your vagina becomes “looser after having sex with lots of men”. that’s just slut shame-y bullshit. 

men who brag about shit like “her pussy was tight as hell for me. i ruined that pussy” are just bragging about the fact that they couldnt sexually arouse her enough for her to loosen enough. which means they are awful at sex. they are bragging about being fucking awful at sex.

the only time your vagina becomes looser is with age and after multiple births. 

anyone who tell you differently is dumb. 

 

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  16:11

  
           date: 2013-11-04 time: 16:11:03

it’d be really nice if there was at least one person there to comfort you whenever someone says something mean to you or you just had a bad day but unfortunately that’s not always going to be the case

of course you’re deserving of love and from others but what’s maybe even more important is that you deserve to love, respect, and be happy with yourself because depending on others to make you feel good is not going to work out well

it’s a lot easier said than done but i promise that it isn’t impossible

 

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  23:38

  
           date: 2013-10-29 time: 23:39:05

I want to marry you before autumn ends, before the leaves crinkle up and fall from the trees entirely, before they ultimately disappear and the air becomes so cold that it stings our faces and turns our fingertips blue.

I am an uncertain person - uncertain of the way I form words into sentences for you, uncertain of my morning routines, uncertain of the thoughts that fill my head at one, two, and three in the morning. I am an unhappy person, a lonely person.

I have only ever been certain of one thing - and it is you.

So marry me today, tomorrow, or next week, but before autumn ends. Before winter comes. Before spring and summer come as well, to take us into the next ten years of our lives.

Life is too short to not be spending every second of my life loving you.

 

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  19:51

  
           date: 2013-10-11 time: 19:51:53
blir så ledsen när jag ser tjejer vars största önskan är att bli smalare, snyggare, alltid smalare. vill bara skrika SLUTA, DU ÄR VACKER SOM DU ÄR. det är en sjuk värld vi lever i och våra kroppar och utseenden borde inte ha någon betydelse, det hela handlar bara om att pressa in kvinnor i en roll som detta jävla patriarkala samhälle har bestämt åt oss och krossa vår självkänsla så att vi varken har tid eller ork att kämpa emot. det handlar endast om kvinnors lydnad. men jag är trött på detta. jag tänker inte ändra på min kropp för någon annans skull, allra minst för ett samhälle som alltid säger åt mig att jag inte duger som jag är!! det måste få ett slut. 6 KILLAR VÅLDTOG EN TJEJ OCH GICK FRIA!!!!!! vi måste inse att vi har viktigare saker att kämpa för än ett mindre midjemått. blir så arg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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  17:48

  
           date: 2013-10-08 time: 17:48:23
Why growing up sucks
I finally realized why it is that I’ve hated growing up so much. It’s not about the goodbye’s or the puberty or the first heartbreak and all. It’s about realizing what kind of world we live in. 
 
As we grow up, we learn about bigotry and feminism and misogyny and homophobia and all the fucked up discrimination that goes on in the world. We start recognizing it in our everyday lives. In people that we love and care for. People that we admire.
 
As we grow up, we see how women are treated as objects of sexual arousal and nothing else. How little girls are overtly sexualized in the name of dress up and ‘children having fun’ even though it’s really just a means of self pleasure for pedophiles. 
 
We learn about how people were horribly mistreated or killed just for being of a certain race or colour or following a particular religion and seeing it continue till today, many years later. We see people getting barred from air planes just because some people of the same ethnicity committed horrendous acts of terrorism and we watch, horrified, as society accepts it.
 
We see how men and every aspect of the male gender is glorified. How society is ruled by males no matter how much it tries to deny it. How it is natural for men to only care about sex but ‘slutty’ for women to do the same. How men expressing feelings is considered a positive trait but a woman showing a sliver of human emotion is deemed ‘hysterical’ and ‘over dramatic’.
 
We try to comprehend why loving someone of the same gender is deemed ‘immoral’ or even worse ‘a phase’. Why two men or two women can’t love each other with the same intensity and passion that a man and a woman do without being called names; horrendous, incomprehensible names. Why two lovers can’t have their dream wedding but instead have to do with a trip to a very unromantic room and signing some legal papers, just because they’re of the same sex.
 
You see, as a kid, we are raised to believe that our world is a wonderful place. A place where people dream. A place where dreams come true. A place where you can be anything you want to be, do anything you want to do.
But, as we grow up, we see our world the way it is. A horrible, misogynistic, homophobic and racist world. A world that is a born bigot in every single way possible. We see that and it shatters us. It…it destroys us. Why? Because we don’t want to live in this kind of world. I mean, how could we?
 
Our world is a terrible place to live in and our society as a whole realizes that and accepts that without so much as a gasp or a moment of hesitation. We live in a disgusting world and we know it. We as a people, accept it wholeheartedly.
 
And whenever somebody wishes for a different kind of world, in this case me, they are laughed at. They’re called naive or foolish. How screwed up is that?
 
Doesn’t that sadden you? Like is it really that foolish to ask for a better world to live in? I’m not asking for Utopia or perfection. Perfection shall never be achieved and I know it. I’m just asking for my world, my home, my fucking country to be a little less sexist, a little less homophobic, a little less of a bigot. Is that so unattainable? I mean, for every person that stands up and asks for a better world for them to live in, a thousand laugh.
 
Because the very idea of a better world is laughable. Unimaginable. Do you know how helpless that makes me feel? How sad and pathetic that makes me feel?
 
I am 16 years old. 16. 16 years and I’ve already given up on this world. What will 16 more do? Heck, what will the rest of my frigging life do?
 
I don’t hate growing up because I have to say goodbye to people. I don’t hate it because of my first heartbreak that is still to come. I hate it because my world is disintegrating right in front of me into this big pile of shit, and there’s nothing I can do about it.
 
And society accepts it.
 

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  12:27

  
           date: 2013-10-03 time: 12:27:11
the whole “u don’t have to get a degree!! fuck society do what u want!! travel the world!! dnt follow the rules!!” thing is cute n all but its really hard to travel and go to concerts and drive for hours to nowhere in particular or even find a place to live when you have a shit job that pays close to nothing because you have no degree and actually even when you have a degree and a high paying job you have no time to do anything personally fulfilling so long story short life is a meaningless waste and nothing matters :~)
 

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  18:12

  
           date: 2013-09-23 time: 18:12:46

cows are the best they’re so nice and sweet and kinda dumb but mostly just nice they like to frolick and they’re so content just with the sun and the grass i also like that the girls pretty much just get their own species no one cares about bulls it’s all about the pretty happy sweet lil buttercup cows

 

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  20:17

  
           date: 2013-09-20 time: 20:17:05

i don’t care for organised religion, i guess i’m spiritual. mostly superstitious. i like learning about my zodiac sign and various religions and i pick and choose from them what makes sense to me. i just want to be a nice person and be happy. mostly i trust mother nature and “signs” and vibes and energy from other people and i don’t really believe in anything i just think learning about spirituality is interesting. i just want to be connected to the earth.

 

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  19:54

  
           date: 2013-09-19 time: 19:54:30

i just rly want everyone to be happy n love themselves n everyone else n do beautiful things like play in the forest with imaginary faeries and skip rocks in creeks and drink flavoured vodka with friends who care

 

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  17:59

  
           date: 2013-09-19 time: 17:59:32
  • just because i don’t want to have sex with YOU does not make me a lesbian
  • being antisocial does not make me a lesbian
  • having less sex than other girls does not make me a lesbian
  • being able to state that i find a girl attractive does not make me a lesbian
  • being too self-conscious to approach or maintain relationships with guys does not make me a lesbian

but

  • calling me a lesbian because i won’t fuck you and you don’t care enough about me or are too stupid to realise the above DOES make you an idiot
 

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  19:09

  
           date: 2013-09-16 time: 19:09:13

ok.… i like beyonce // i’m not trying to be that girl who has to hate on everything everyone else likes BUT she’s been around for like 15 years and in the past 7-8 months everyone is suddenly jizzing their fucking pants over her like did i miss something huge, did she pop out the next jesus christ or cure a blind person or smth?? i dnt get it

 

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  15:52

  
           date: 2013-09-14 time: 15:52:28
i fucking love it when straight divorced catholic idiots oppose gay marriage w that “sanctity” argument omg like “they can be together but if they are allowed to get married that just totally undermines marriage” DO U HEAR URSELF
 

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  13:05

  
           date: 2013-09-14 time: 13:05:35
i am putting myself first. i come first i come first i come first. if you say something that is poisonous to me i am not going to swallow it. i am not going to swallow your poison. your intentions are good you are fine but i don’t care. i don’t care. i care about myself. i am trying to care about myself. everyone is just bragging. stop bragging. i’m fine. don’t talk to me. i’m fine. i don’t measure myself by measuring you. no. that’s not how it works. no. don’t talk to me. stop bragging. stop bragging stop stop stop. don’t talk to me. don’t text me don’t message me don’t talk to me. i am putting myself first and i don’t care.
 

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  22:46

  
           date: 2013-09-13 time: 22:46:54

the people on youtube who comment on an artist’s new music like ‘their old stuff was so much better’ or ‘thumbs up if you like their earlier music way more :((’ or ‘this album is too radio-friendly ugh’

like what do you think you are accomplishing?? go listen to the stuff you like then??? do u think you’re special? asshole

 
 

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