REMEMBER:

 

1.

plants can't always bloom where they're planted (so you shouldn't be expected to).

 

2.

in order to grow, each plant needs unique conditions of soil, sunlight, and water. each plant needs room to spread its roots and sprout.

 

3.

humans are similar in this way to plants, but humans have an advantage. humans can largely control their environment.

 

4.

so bloom where you're planted - or don't - and it's okay if you can't.

 

5.

cut your hair, rearrange your room, move across the country. seek closure, seek help. find what and where and how works for you. bloom where you can thrive.